#6 Bask in the Sun on the Greek Islands

16 Mar

For the second half of our honeymoon we decided to visit Greece. Neither of us had been before and it was one of the only tropical locations that didn’t have a risk of contracting Zika, so the decision was pretty easy. We were really looking for a beach getaway, but from everything I read you need to spend one day in Athens, so we decided to start our adventure there.

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The one thing we did differently for this portion of the trip is that we used a travel agent. She booked all of our hotels, ferries and excursions. In hindsight, I would have done it myself (which is what we did for Ireland). We used the same travel agent we had for our wedding. She had done a fantastic job coordinating things for Mexico, but pretty much everything she planned in Greece had some sort of issue. If we were to do this again, I would either book everything myself, which is pretty easy to do online, or hire a travel agent that specializes in that area of the world.

We arrived in Athens on May 16, 2019, and hadn’t yet heard from our travel agent when we would be picked up the next day to catch the ferry for Mykonos. Upon arrival at noon, we found out it would be at 5AM. Not an ideal time on any vacation, but also this gave us very limited time in Athens. We had a bike tour scheduled that afternoon though that was supposed to take us through all the important sights so we weren’t too worried. We dropped our stuff at the hotel and had lunch at God’s restaurant across from the Acropolis.

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The view was spectacular and the food was delicious. (The food in Ireland was good, but very heavy, so it was nice to have a lighter meal with some veggies.)

Following that we went back to the hotel to get ready for our tour and when we arrived, received a message that the tour had been cancelled. Now, had I booked it myself, I would have found out the day before, but our travel agent didn’t tell us until the last minute. We just went with it though (after all we were on vacation in a beautiful location) and found a Segway company that offered to take us out on a private tour. The Segways were so funny. Of course Mychael, being the super-good-at-everything guy he is, picked it up instantly. I however, almost hit a parked car.😆 So we embraced our inner nerds and Segway’d our way around Athens.

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It’s incredible how much history there is in that city. And you don’t have to go far to find it. The city is built around the Acropolis and everywhere you turn there are more ancient ruins (a big difference from in the US where an old Blockbuster constitutes ancient ruins). Our guide said they actually had to stop digging because there is so much history there that they would never be able to build anything. It was a whirlwind of a tour, but we were able to see a lot.

And the best part…Mychael tolerated all my photo requests. We even wrapped up the day by taking some shots at Hadrian’s Arch, which was constructed in 131 AD and was right across the street from our hotel.

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That night we randomly had dinner at the most delicious Indian restaurant and then walked around to see the city at night.

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We had a great time walking around all the little side streets, window shopping and of course sampling the local ice cream (Mychael wouldn’t have it any other way).

The next morning we got up before the crack of dawn to catch the ferry to Mykonos. The inter-island ferries are actually very nice. They are huge with spacious seating, food and a bar.

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This one was so early though that we slept most of the way. Upon our arrival, we were met by a driver holding a sign with Mychael’s name on it (cool VIP touch) who took us to the hotel.

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Our hotel was a bit outside of town, which we liked. It was a really modern place that seemed so luxurious compared to how we had been traveling up until this point. (Overall the rest of our trip was set up to be a lot more relaxing, lavish and more of what you’d typically expect on a honeymoon.)

We hung out at the beautiful pool overlooking the Aegean Sea while we waited for our room to be ready.

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Once we were able to officially check in, we got changed and took a taxi into town.

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The downtown area was bustling with tourists checking out souvenirs in the many shops. The best way to describe the area is a labyrinth of walk streets. It was so cool and I can imagine plenty of confused tourists getting lost back there.🤣

After our window shopping, we had a drink on the tiniest balcony over the water at a place named Katerina’s…

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followed by a delicious dinner at a beautiful restaurant called Remezzo where we watched our first Greek sunset.

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We’d heard about the sunsets in Santorini (our next stop), but every single sunset in Greece was breathtaking.

Following dinner we tried to find a spot to relax and have a cup of coffee, but didn’t have any luck. That was our first sign that this island might be a little different than what we expected. Mykonos is apparently the party capital of Greece (oops…looks like we should have done some more research first). As one of the more popular Greek islands, we figured it should be a stop on our itinerary, but we quickly found out that the nights are filled with drinking and partying…not exactly what we were looking for on this trip. I guess we should have been tipped off when we saw shirts in the souvenir shops that said Mykonos f&?k$ Ibiza.😬 We were technically there in the off-season though so it wasn’t as crazy as it could have been and we still found plenty to keep ourselves busy.

The next day we worked out for the first time in FOREVER. Our hotel had a nice gym and we were the only people in it, so we were able to set up some circuits (had to work off some of that fried food we ate in Ireland!). Then we rented an ATV to get around the island.

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Taxis are pretty expensive there so most people rent ATVs or scooters, which you can drive on the road with the car traffic. We drove all around the island exploring and beach hopping.

And of course, because I was with Mychael, we needed an adventure, so we took a backroad down a super-steep hill. I was holding on for dear life and thankfully we survived! (This photo doesn’t do it justice)

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We got to Fokos Beach where we had a delicious lunch at the only restaurant there and then relaxed on the sand for a bit.

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Being the adventurer he is, Mychael can only do this for so long, so an hour later we were back on the ATV. From there we swung by the Lindsay Lohan Beach Club because that’s all pretty much anyone had been asking about when they heard we were going to Mykonos, but much to my dismay, it was closed. I guess the show didn’t do well so the club was only open for one season…shocking!

On our way home, we stopped by Super Paradise, a famed Mykonos club, just to see what it was all about. It had the exact same vibe as every club in Tijuana or Rosarito, which I experienced enough of in college, so we pretty much walked in and walked right out (yeah, we complained about the music volume and the dancers’ lack of clothes…#gettingold). We drove over to a quieter side of the island and enjoyed an incredible dinner and another beautiful sunset before calling it a night.

The next day we had an excursion that our travel agent booked. It was supposed to be a snorkeling boat trip with a stop at Delos, an archaeological site in the Aegean Sea. The boat was really nice and the captain and staff were great, but come to find out there isn’t actually anything to see when you snorkel (which was surprising to us because we had specifically asked that question before booking this excursion).

On top of that, the water was pretty cold. No-fear-Mychael still jumped in to check it out though and as the reliable wife, I went in after him.

From there, we went to Delos, which was a really remarkable active archeological site filled with so much history.

Overall, the experience was fun, but not really what we expected.

When we got back, we enjoyed the jacuzzi on our balcony and got ready for dinner. At this point, we knew the sunset would be beautiful from anywhere, so we just pulled over on the side of the road and watched it on a wall overlooking the beach.

We had pretty much decided the restaurants in town were too touristy and overpriced for the experience we wanted, so Mychael found a really cool restaurant outside of town where we had another great meal at a table with a tree growing in the middle of it!

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For our last day in Mykonos, we took the ATV to a secluded beach named Agios Sostis Beach.

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After exhausting Mychael’s one-hour relaxation time limit, we went up to check out the famous Kiki’s Tavern. The restaurant doesn’t have electricity and they offer free wine while you’re waiting! Unfortunately the wait was too long though, so we didn’t end up eating (but don’t worry…I sampled the wine😉.

We spent the rest of the day exploring a lot of cool beaches before heading to a place we’d heard about called Scorpios for a pre-dinner drink. This place was SO COOL. I would definitely recommend stopping by. It’s secluded and out of the way, but totally worth it….sort of like a WAY nicer and more mellow Coachella vibe. While we were there a guy was playing the electric clarinet and DJing. It was such a unique location that you really have to check it out for yourself.

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We drove to the north end of the island to watch our last sunset at a lighthouse and it may have been the best one yet.

Then had dinner at Lumnios Tavern, a locals spot recommended to us earlier that day. Another incredible dinner and we got to try ouzo at the end of the meal (not my cup of tea, but when in Greece…).

Knowing what I know now about Mykonos, it probably wouldn’t be at the very top of my list for a romantic getaway, but it was definitely a beautiful place and there’s a lot to see if you get outside of the touristy area.

The next day we took the ferry to Santorini (after changing the timing ourselves since the travel agent had us getting there WAY too early). When we arrived in Santorini we expected to see a sign with Mychael’s name again, but nothing. We waited for a while, called our travel agent and the emergency hotline she gave us, but no one was able to help, so we ended up just paying to take a shuttle. It was another frustrating experience of working with this travel agent, but we weren’t going to let that ruin our day.

When we arrived in Oia, the town we were staying in (I’d heard it was very romantic and had the best sunset views), we checked into thehotel, which was tucked into the side of a cliff with “cave rooms” and went out to explore.

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Mychael tried to rent a scooter so we could get around since things on Santorini are pretty spread out, but we quickly leaner the rules were more strict on this island and we needed an international license.

That evening we walked down 300 steps in the dark to the port of Amoudi Bay to have dinner at a restaurant where you got to pick out your fish and they grill it for you right there. It was delicious, but really every meal we had in Greece was.

The next morning, after filling out an online form, we were on our way to print out Mychael’s international driver’s license (a little easier than getting a real license!). We took the city bus into Fira, which is the main central town in Santorini. These bus drivers are crazy talented! They drive huge charter buses on super narrow roads on a cliff. It was scary to look out the window, so I can’t imagine what it is like to be the driver!

When we got into town, we grabbed a Cappuccino Freddo from a super-cute place called the Coffee Lab

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and then went to rent a scooter from a guy named Big Mike.

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We were ready for a big day of sight-seeing. We went to Kamari Beach where we laid on the black sand, went in the sea, had lunch and shared a gelato (this honeymoon was also a tour of Greece’s best ice cream).

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Next up was a stop at the mountaintop town of Pyrgos, but unfortunately on the way we got into an accident. People in Greece drive pretty crazy. The lane lines mean nothing and it’s perfectly acceptable to park in a traffic lane. In this instance, we were going up a hill, around a bend and the car coming down veered way over into our lane. To avoid getting hit head-on, we swerved and went crashing down. I’d never been in a real accident before and we were just tourists enjoying a beach day, so we were in shorts and flip flops. After assessing the damage, Mychael decided he wanted me to go to the hospital, so we hopped back on the scooter and made our way there. The hospital was interesting…maybe not the same level of cleanliness as the U.SA., but an ER visit was only 30 Euros!

They patched us up and sent us on our way back to the hotel. The bad news was now we weren’t allowed to go in the ocean, enjoy the jacuzzi on our balcony or even get our legs wet (which made showering very interesting).

 

When we got back to the hotel Mychael realized there was actually dry rot on the scooter tires, which probably contributed to our accident, so Mychael had Bike Mike come switch it out for a safer one. Morale of the story is don’t rent from Big Mike.

We still had a really fun evening though. We had a drink and watched the sunset at our hotel. Then we went across the street to a restaurant called Santorini Mou for what we thought would just be an easy dinner, but ended up being one of the best and most fun nights. The owner of the restaurant serenaded us and took our photo to add to a book of people celebrating their honeymoons in Santorini. They treated us like family and that, plus the jug of wine we drank, made it a great ending to a rough day.

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The next day, after restocking on medical supplies at the pharmacy and fueling up with delicious coffee overlooking the famous blue-domed church, we went to the Red Beach, which honestly was over-hyped…we liked the black beach much better.

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Then we explored the ruins of Akrotiri. After that we did a sunset wine tasting at Vestanos Winery. It was beautiful and almost a better location to watch the sunset than Oia.

The next morning I had scheduled a photoshoot for us in Oia through Airbnb. It was much more affordable than hiring a photographer on your own, so I highly recommend it. Now if you know Mychael, you know how much he hates photoshoots, so his participation in this really showed me how much he loves me.😆 The photos turned out great though, so it was totally worth it. I only wish there weren’t huge bandages in some of the shots, but the photographer did his best to get the injury-free angles.

That afternoon we made our way to Pyrgos (incident free this time)

and finally returned the scooter. It was an easy way to get around, but I had such PTSD from the accident that I was really excited to let it go. We had dinner at a beautiful cliffside restaurant named Metropolis in Fira during sunset and then took the bus home.

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On Saturday we had the excursion booked for us by the travel agent, so you know what that means. The boat was supposed to take us to hike a volcano, swim to a naturally occurring hot springs in the middle of the sea and to another island called Thirassia. To start, the boat was packed…so many people you had to fight to get a seat (not ideal when you’re injured). Then we got to the volcano and decided not to do the hike…we were hobbling more than walking after the accident and from what we heard from the people that went, it wasn’t all that exciting any way. We had gotten the ok from the pharmacist to go in the hot springs, but at our own risk. Basically, it wouldn’t do any damage, but the salt water was REALLY going to sting. This was something we were so excited to do so we were ready to endure the pain until we got there and the captain said the springs were only 10 degrees warmer than the water, which was really cold. Since it was a true HOT spring, we decided to sit that part out as well, which again we heard was a good choice because it wasn’t that great and we were only there for such a short amount of time. The next stop at Thirassia was equally as disappointing. The town definitely sounded cool, but you had to climb a bunch of stairs up a steep cliff to get there and we were told we didn’t have time (even if we could have hobbled our way up there). So we were just stuck in the touristy port for an hour.

Overall, this excursion was a huge waste and I definitely would not recommend it to anyone. There are so many better things to see and do in Santorini.

When we got back, we changed in the lobby bathroom (we had already checked out) and went across the street to our new favorite restaurant for dinner and to check out one last sunset.

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BUT…before we could even eat our food we were interrupted by our front desk staff to say that our driver was there early to take us to the airport (another misstep by the the travel agent).

Even though a lot went wrong in Santorini, we still had an incredible experience. In moment’s like those, you can choose to let it ruin your day or just move on and thankfully, with Mychael by my side, we were able to do just that and create some amazing memories (with matching scars to go with it😁).

If we ever go back to Greece I would love to explore some of the smaller islands because some of our best memories came from the moments when we went off the beaten path and explored.

I know there are many more adventures to come with this guy.

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#15 Visit the Guinness Factory in Ireland

10 Mar

I think we’ll just accept that staying on top of this blog is not one of my strong suits, so from here on out I’m going to stop beginning each one by apologizing for my tardiness because it’s just getting repetitive at this point.😆

After Mychael and I got married (back in Sept. 2018), we started making plans for our honeymoon. Neither of us have done a lot of international travel, so we figured this was the time. We really wanted to go somewhere tropical since we both love the beach, but because we were planning to get pregnant shortly after the honeymoon, most of the tropical locations were off the table due to Zika. We evaluated our options and decided Greece would be perfect. I’d always wanted to go and there were plenty of beaches for us to enjoy (more on that one in the next post). We wanted to make this a multi-stop trip though, but weren’t sure what else to add to our itinerary. Mychael is Irish and went there once when he was younger, always dreaming of going back, so we added that to our list. Ireland and Greece…that’s a totally logical combination, right? Completely different climates and just a quick 4-hour flight. It didn’t make the most sense, but we decided to lock it in.

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We started our trip in Ireland and because Mychael is the man he is, it was an adventure from the get-go. We arrived in Dublin and went to pick up our rental car. We wanted the freedom to sightsee at our own pace, so had decided to drive around the country. In an effort to save budget for whiskey tastings, Mychael booked a car with a manual transmission (and the sweet lady at the counter upgraded us to the bigger car…a mini).

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In Ireland, they drive on the left side of the road, which meant he would be shifting with his left hand from the right side of the car…all things he’d never done before (note that I didn’t even attempt to drive at all!). We drove right into the heart of Dublin – traffic, one-way streets…the perfect way to start off a new driving adventure. Mychael mastered it in no time though and got us to our Airbnb in one piece. We had time for a quick nap and then it was off to see the city.

It was raining on the day we arrived, so our options were somewhat limited. We decided to kick things off with a true cheesy tourist experience and ride the double-decker bus to take in as much of the city as possible with our limited time (we only had one day before we planned to hit the road to Northern Ireland). With the weather being what it was, this was actually the perfect way to see a lot of the city.

The one thing I had planned in advance for us though was a tour of the Guinness Storehouse. It’s a must-see in Dublin.

Generally we’re not huge beer drinkers, but there’s one thing this Irishman taught me about St. Patrick’s Day is that we have to do at least a couple Irish car bombs, so I’d enjoyed a Guinness or two in the past. The first part of the tour was very informational, showing us the history of the beer and how it’s made (of course Mychael was geeking out the whole time because he loves to learn). Then we got to the good part…the tasting!

 

We learned to pour the perfect Guinness at the Guinness Academy – it’s tougher than you think – and got our official certification. So if anyone needs us to pour for them, we’ve got you covered.

We also got to do a super-cool experience that I signed us up for in advance – a Stoutie – they scanned our faces into the head of the beer! We were taken back into a super-secret room where a machine scanned our photos onto the beer. They turned out SO good!

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From there we took our beers up to the Gravity Bar on the top floor to enjoy them with an incredible view of Dublin. It was a great experience that I would highly recommend for anyone making the trip.

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And I know that’s all this blog is supposed to focus on, but I would be remiss not to briefly mention the other areas we visited.

From Dublin we drove up to Northern Ireland (totally different country with different currency) and stayed in Belfast. We met up with Mychael’s cousin that lives in a nearby town and he gave us a tour of the city. The history of civil unrest was so interesting. We went to the Titanic Museum,

signed a peace wall,

and did our own little pub crawl of famous bars.

The next day we did what we like to call marathon sightseeing. We went to the Dark Hedges (you Game of Thrones fans know what that is),

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checked out some friary ruins, went on a tour of the Bushmills Distillery,

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walked across the Carrick-a-Rede Rope Bridge,

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visited some castle ruins and walked out to Giants Causeway,

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all before meeting Mychael’s cousin and his family at the highest restaurant in Ireland. It was really cool to be able to spend time and stay with locals to get a real sense for life in Ireland.

Then we drove out to the coast the next day and on the way walked the Walls of Derry and stopped at some random church ruins in the valley (everything has so much history in Ireland compared to our much more recent country). Once we got to the coast we took the mini off-roading to see a shipwreck on the beach in Donegal

 

and hiked to Slieve League.

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We continued down the coast, visiting Donegal castle and BallyShannon (Mychael’s namesake).
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We visited Yeats’ grave and drove through Sligo. We stopped for fish & chips and ice cream at Strandhill Beach on our way to Galway. That night we found a pub with traditional Irish music and enjoyed some local whiskey (don’t get me wrong though, this was something we did almost every night😉).
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The next morning we walked the long walk to the Spanish Arch in Galway
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and did some souvenir shopping. We’d been going, going, going and hadn’t had a chance to pick anything up for our family back at home. We visited the romantic town of Doolin
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and the breathtaking Cliffs of Moore.
We made a quick stop in Shannontown (since pretty much everything in Ireland is named Shannon) and had dinner at a famous spot called Durty Nelly’s in the shadow of the Bunratty Castle.
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We woke up in Limerick where we saw Shannon Street and Shannon River.
We made a stop at the distillery for Mychael’s favorite whiskey Tullamore Dew.
We then made our way to the oldest bar in world.
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If you haven’t noticed a theme yet, there was a lot of drinking during this portion of the trip. Typically a pinot girl, I had to learn to like whiskey real quick. 😁 
We spent that night back in Dublin and then woke up early the next day to head to our next destination (Greece). It was a whirlwind seven days, but there is so much to see in Ireland that we wanted to be sure not to miss anything. It was an incredible experience that I would highly recommend adding to your travel bucket list.

#34 Get an Adorable Little Dog

13 Apr

Meet Peanut, the cutest little dog in the world!

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Mychael and I don’t agree on everything, but we’ve always known that we wanted a dog, or two. But while he wanted a bulldog or a big retriever, I had always wanted a tiny little fluff ball I could cuddle with.

For my 37th birthday, a month before our wedding, Mychael let me know he had a present for me that I wouldn’t get until we returned from Mexico. I was intrigued, but was way too caught up in wedding planning to pay much attention. After the wedding I had so much free time on my hands, so I started casually looking at dog shelter listings online. One day I sent Mychael a few to ask what he thought and his response stunned me. He said, “I thought you wanted one more like this,” followed by 10 or so links to cute little fluffy dogs. Turns out, he had been looking for a while, but knew it didn’t make sense to get a puppy and then go to Mexico for a week and a half.

I was so excited! We both started looking regularly and after missing out on a few because we weren’t quick enough (tan fluff balls are VERY popular), we were starting to get a bit discouraged. One Monday morning before work I took a quick look online and there was a new posting for the cutest little puppy I had ever seen. I reached out immediately and the woman said she was ours, but we needed to pick her up that same day…in LA! Mychael, being the incredible person that he is, didn’t skip a beat and told me to call my boss because we were driving to LA.

When we finally got there and met our adorable little Peanut, it was love at first sight. We knew she was now, and forever would be, a part of our family. We brought her home that day and I think I have loved her more every day since.

At the time, she fit in the palm of Mychael’s hands and was about the size of my shoe.

What I didn’t realize though is how little puppies sleep (well during the night at least). Peanut would get up to go to the bathroom and then want to play. And of course I was a huge softie. This is what her first night of crate training looked like…

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But perhaps that had to do with all the naps her dad took with her during the day…

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The sleepless nights and destroyed shoes are worth it though because what she takes in rest and shoelaces, she gives back ten-fold in love and cuddles.

This dog is definitely well loved. She’s made lots of trips to her grandparents house already. They are just as obsessed with her as we are. 😆

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And she made her first furriend in my brother’s dog Honey Bear.

She’s the sweetest, most lovable puppy and I don’t know what we did without her. I have more photos than you could ever imagine, so if you want to see more, check out her Instagram page (yep, I’m a crazy dog mom…but at least I recognize and own it 😆).

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#39 Find my Soul Mate, Fall in Love and Get Married–Part 2

14 Oct

It happened! I met my soul mate, my match. I fell madly, deeply in love. And now I’m a married woman living my happily ever after.

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On September 22, 2018, in front of our closest family and friends, on a beautiful beach in Mexico, Mychael and I proclaimed our love for each other. It was such a special day, and really an unforgettable week.

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We decided early on in the wedding planning process that we wanted to do a destination wedding. A couple of years ago, we attended my cousin Ali’s wedding in Tulum and had the most incredible time. It wasn’t about the actual wedding day per say, although that was lovely, it was about all the quality time we got to spend with everyone. We loved so many things about that trip that we decided to do something really similar. Fortunately my cousin is really cool and was flattered, not upset, when I called to ask if we could model our wedding after hers.

We worked with an awesome travel agency out of Dallas called Legacy Travel. Our travel agent Lesley was super helpful from the get-go. She made venue recommendations and arranged for us to do a site check trip. We looked at 8 hotels in the Riviera Maya, specifically in Playa Mujeres, Cancun, Puerto Morelos and Playa del Carmen. In the end, we decided on Dreams Riviera Cancun in Puerto Morelos. The hotel was tucked away and felt very private, but was still only a short distance to the airport, which was something we kept in mind for some of our older guests and those that were apprehensius about traveling out of the country. It is an all-inclusive resort, which looks expensive upfront, but when you factor in food and alcohol costs, it’s actually a great deal (especially considering how much our friends and family like to drink 🍻).

We worked with their in-house wedding planning staff to put together the event of our dreams (well, really just mine…I don’t think Mychael ever dreamed of his wedding 😆). They do a ton of weddings at this hotel, so I felt really confident in their ability to pull it off. We planned to have our ceremony right on the beach, no shoes required, the cocktail hour on a restaurant rooftop at sunset, and the reception on a deck on the beach.

You always hear people complain about wedding planning, but for me, it was really fun. It probably helps that event planning is a part of my job and both my parents are in marketing so they had great advice. I tried hard to think through every little detail to ensure the trip would be a memorable experience for all our guests. Our ultimate goal was to throw an amazing party so people would have a great time celebrating and getting to know each other.

When the week came, we were ready to go. We’d packed up several big suitcases of decorations and sent one with each of our parents (I’d ordered a lot of stuff…I wish Etsy had something equivalent to a frequent flyer program! They literally have anything you can think of for weddings and believe me, I put that site to the the test.)

My parents spoiled us and upgraded everything about our trip, so we were picked up by a car service and taken to the airport. Then hung at the lounge and flew first class.

When we changed planes in LA, they surprised us by booking the seats right across from us (we didn’t think they were coming until the next day!). I love surprises so much and it was so fun to travel with them to Cancun.

Once we got to the hotel, everything went by so quickly. The first couple of days were filled with wedding-related meetings to make sure everything was ready to go. And then before you know it, the wedding activities began!

We had a welcome karaoke party so everyone could get to know each other over a few (or 10 drinks).

The following night was the rehearsal dinner. It was a beautiful private dinner that felt like we were eating in the jungle. Following dinner, we had a surprise fire dancer show. It was pretty cool!

And before you know it, it was the BIG DAY! My amazing maid-of-honor Anita got some super-cute matching bathing suits for the bridesmaids and my girls and I did a fun photoshoot that morning.

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And then it was time to head to the spa to get ready. I invited the bridesmaids, flower girl, the moms and Mychael’s sister to all get ready together, so we completely took over the spa. It was so fun!

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Then, we went back to my room to all get dressed, hang out and toast with some champagne.

And I found the sweetest card from Mychael.

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He’s not a mushy guy, so this meant so much to me. It talked about how people kept asking if he was nervous, but he wasn’t. He was sure. It resonated because I felt the exact same way. I wasn’t nervous about marrying him or spending the rest of my life with him. I was excited. This was the moment I’d been waiting for and I had found the man of my dreams.

It all came and went in a flash.

Family is really important to both Mychael and I so our ceremony consisted of only family members. My dad was our officiant (and he nailed it…funny and sentimental at the same time), Mychael’s dad did a special Irish bell ringing ceremony to honor their family’s heritage, his sister did a sweet reading about love and my brother did a more light-hearted reading from The Wedding Singer. Our ceremony was heart-felt and there were some candid moments that I will treasure forever. It was perfect. Everything I had ever imagined and so much more.

From there we took a million photos (Mychael’s personal nightmare) and our guests headed to the cocktail hour.

During the cocktail hour it started pouring. We knew this was coming and had planned earlier in the day to move the reception inside. Ideally it would have held off another 30 minutes, but the staff was really on top of it and moved everyone downstairs inside the restaurant just in time to avoid the rain and finish up the cocktail hour. It wasn’t my dream to have the reception in a ballroom, but in the end it wasn’t a big deal. Everyone had a great time and some people even said they liked it better because there was air conditioning. And the staff did a great job of making it look beautiful.

Our wedding was an incredible day, but moreso than that, the week was an unforgettable celebration of love. And man, it was fun. All our friends and family meshed so well and we’ve even seen new friendships forming because of that trip. I had the best time ever and I wish we could do it all again. Maybe I can talk Mychael into inviting 75 of our closest family and friends on a trip to celebrate our first anniversary. 😉

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#18 Weigh the Weight Listed On My Driver’s License

17 Sep

This is a goal that I wasn’t sure was even possible. I have never updated my driver’s license and thus it’s set at the weight I was in high school….a time when you can eat whatever you want and not gain a pound.

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After getting engaged at the end of September 2017, I knew I wanted to lose some weight and get toned for the wedding. The dreary San Francisco weather had gotten me accustomed to comfort food and cozy sweaters. And once we decided on a destination wedding (read: spending time with all our friends and family in a bikini 👙) I was dead set on getting abs. So at the start of the year, I set a wedding resolution, not a New Year’s resolution because statistically those don’t typically work, to get into shape.

My whole life I have never really cared about weight per say. The numbers on the scale can make you feel really bad about yourself when you actually look great. And we all know that muscle weighs more than fat, so if you’re strong, your weight won’t necessarily be as low as you might like. All that aside though, I had set this goal on my list and I figured this was the most likely time to check it off. I made sure to keep my ultimate goal in mind though because while it would be great to accomplish the weight loss, I wanted to be strong, not skinny.

Generally, I’m a pretty motivated person. If I set an absolute like, “I’m not eating any sweets,” I’m pretty good at sticking to it. I know myself well enough to know that I need these absolutes in the beginning to get myself on the right track. So that’s where I started…no sweets and cook dinner at home at least three times per week. (Thankfully I live with a very talented chef, so the cooking part wasn’t as challenging as it could have been.) Then we added in a couple of other things like making our own pizzas on a healthy crust instead of eating out and, probably the most difficult one for me, limiting tortilla chips (my fav!).

I also started bumping up my workout routine, but I approached it in a different way than I had in the past. I tried everything and never did the same thing in one week. I did Pilates, yoga, Mychael’s Fit Phases program, Barry’s Bootcamp, Orangetheory, Body by Simone, circuit workouts in Mychael’s gym, running, swimming, spinning, dance classes…you name it. It was really fun switching things up so much and trying new things. I planned my workouts for the week on Sunday, but kept things flexible and just did whatever I was feeling that day.

The food part is much more difficult for me in general. If I could work out twice per day and live on pizza and tortilla chips, I’d be in heaven. Unfortunately though, that’s not the way it works. So I started food logging. It was surprising to see how many calories were in some of my favorite foods. After logging all the separate ingredients in one of my go-to take-out salads, I might as well have just had pizza. It was very eye opening and forced me to make some additional changes to my diet. I started everyday with an Herbalife cookies ‘n creme shake (delicious, healthy and full of vitamins). Mychael is a rep so I knew about the products, but hadn’t used them regularly before. Then for lunch, I started going to the grocery store near my office and buying all the ingredients to make my own salads so I could ensure there weren’t any hidden calories. For dinner, Mychael made lots of delicious dishes that always consisted of a lean protein and veggies.

I actually started logging everything in the Fitbit app. I pretty much lived by it. (Full disclosure, I work at Fitbit, but aside from having access to Fitbit trackers, there really isn’t any advantage there.) I made sure to drink at least 100 ounces of water per day; tried REALLY hard to get at least 7 hours of sleep each night; almost always got my 10,000 daily steps; and kept track of my exercise. This was all gradual though. I didn’t just jump right into all these big changes, but worked my way up to hitting all these goals.

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By food logging in the app and using the connected scale (Fitbit Aria 2), I was able to make sure I was staying at a calorie deficit. That’s not to say I didn’t have cheat days. I allowed myself to indulge on special occasions…I had Susie Cakes at my bridal shower, margaritas at my bachelorette, Mexican food on my birthday, etc. I didn’t take anything to a crazy extreme and allowed myself to take a break, but then jumped right back into my healthy habits afterwards. Overall I did more good than bad. By giving myself plenty of time to reach my goal, I had room for cheat days, which is a much more realistic and sustainable way to approach weight loss and fitness.

In the beginning it was really difficult. I’m sure there were changes happening on the inside, but I wasn’t seeing the immediate results I was hoping for. What the heck?! At the encouragement of my motivating and super cute trainer, I kept at it. And eventually, I started to see results. I very clearly remember the first time I saw my abs starting to come out. 💪

I weighed myself every Friday morning for consistency and started to see the numbers slowly go down. And on Friday, September 14, I hit my goal! 120 pounds!

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Scale image is from Friday, Sept. 14. I weighed myself again on the 17th and it went down a little bit, but I didn’t have my phone handy to get another pic, hence the slight discrepancy.

So, I’m sorry to say that there’s no trick, no secret pill, no special diet that got me here. The “trick” is everything you already know – move every day, don’t eat crap, drink water and get sleep. And while it took some time to adjust, now it’s just a new lifestyle…one that is sustainable and not a crash wedding diet.

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I’m really proud of all the work I put in and the progress I made. Mexico here I come!

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#38 Take an epic road trip

16 Sep

Being in a relationship means you have to make some compromises, and this becomes very apparent during the holidays. When I was single, I went home for every major holiday, but now with Mychael in the picture, he wants to spend some of them with his family as well…imagine that! So now it’s a trade-off and we spent Christmas 2017 in Indiana. We had a great time with his daughter and parents, and we even got some snow, which you don’t see in Sacramento.

Mychael, being the money-conscious adventurer he is, typically drives home for the holidays. He saves tons of money on flights and gets to stop and see new things on his way to Indiana. I’m usually more of a “let’s just get there” sort of girl, so I typically fly, but this last year my curiosity got to me and I decided to join Mychael for an epic road trip from Indiana to California.

I’d always loved the idea of a road trip, but that just wasn’t the way my family typically travelled. Fortunately, I had a pro taking me out on the road for this adventure.

The first day we drove and drove and drove. Most of the places we wanted to stop were a little further along the route, so we tried to knock out as many miles as possible that first day. We did make one pretty awesome stop at the largest truck stop in the world. It was actually impressive….they had everything, a doctor, a food court, and even a big rig INSIDE the building.

That day we made it all the way to Lincoln, Nebraska, but arrived in the middle of a snowstorm. We were driving at the same speed I run so we decided to call it a night and stay there. We found a cute restaurant for dinner and a nice little motel and once we weren’t driving in it we could appreciate how pretty the snow was.

The next day we got up early and hit the road for Wyoming. Neither of us had spent much time there, so we weren’t really sure what to expect. IMG_3222

We didn’t have time to go north to Jackson, so we ended up at the Terry Bison Ranch in Cheyenne. This place was so interesting. It felt a bit like a dude ranch mixed with a zoo of exotic animals. Not only did they have bison, but they also had camels, emus, lamas and ostriches, among other things. We rode a stuffed buffalo and jackalope, posed for photos in front of the western façade, met some animals and got some sweet t-shirts. We even saw a wedding. It was such a unique, fun stop.

Following that, we got back on the road and spent the night just outside Salt Lake City, Utah.

The next morning we were on a mission to find hot springs. Mychael is a hot springs expert so he already had one all planned out for us – Fifth Water Hot Springs. We could drive to the parking lot outside the hiking trail, hike two miles and get to a really beautiful springs. Well, when we arrived, part of the road was closed due to the snow, but we just went for it anyway…ended up being a six-mile hike each way. We didn’t really have the right shoes for such a long snow hike, and Mychael was of course in shorts, but we made it work.

And man, was it worth it. The hot springs were incredible. They were bright teal and turquoise and looked almost fake against the bright white snow. There were a surprising amount of people up there too, given how far the hike was. But hey, we all got our exercise for the day. We hung out for a while and made some new friends, then decided to make the trek back.

Following that, we had to make up some time so we did another long afternoon of driving to Nevada. That night we stayed at the scariest hotel I’ve ever been to in Wells. To be fair, it’s a really small town and there just aren’t a lot of options, but this was a run-down hotel that I’m pretty sure was used in a horror movie. We were so tired though that we just didn’t think about it and went to sleep.

The next morning we drove just out of town to the 12-Mile Hot Springs. This place was so cool that it was worth the creepy hotel stay. We drove down a deserted road, past a ghost town, out into the middle of nowhere.

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At one point the road got so bad that we couldn’t drive anymore, so we parked our car just randomly in the middle of a field and covered the rest on foot (Mychael, still in shorts of course).

The hike was nothing compared to the other day and when we got to the hot spring, there were only two people there who were leaving. This one was so different than what we had seen the day prior. It was in beautiful valley with nothing else around. We ended up having the springs all to ourselves for quite a while until we decided to get back on the road.

 

From there, we wrapped up our trip with a stop by my parents’ house in Sacramento to celebrate my dad’s birthday/New Year’s Eve.

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We had the best time on our road trip. Even the time we spent just driving in the car was a blast. Together, we have so much fun no matter what we’re doing. And I’m sold on this road trip thing. Can’t wait for the next one!

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BONUS–Run a Marathon

25 Mar

What?!? When I was 30 and first started writing this blog, one of the items was to run a 10K, so it’s pretty incredible that in a matter of 6 years, that goal has turned into a standard weekday morning occurrence. Now I can proudly say that I’ve done two half-Ironman races and run two marathons.

Running a marathon was never a goal of mine. It seemed pretty silly. Why would anyone want to run for 4ish hours? Half-marathon, no problem, but the full distance just seemed ridiculous.

That was until we decided to sponsor the 2016 New York City Marathon, the biggest and one of the most well-known marathons in the world. My colleague Reed said that we needed to run it because it is a “bucket-list race.” Wasn’t on my bucket list. Somehow though she convinced me this was a once-in-a-lifetime experience that I shouldn’t pass up. So, I signed up.

I shocked the heck out of my family by taking this big jump. They were so supportive though. My mom even used her Photoshop skills to show me how great I would look running the race… (it’s like a marathon Where’s Waldo)

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I looked online for a training plan that wouldn’t be too aggressive, but would get me to the finish line in one piece. I found a beginner plan from Bart Yasso, former Runner’s World writer known as the “Mayor of Running.” I followed the plan religiously, not missing a day.

Physically I was ready to take on New York, but mentally was another story. I’m just a little bit Type-A (insert sarcasm here), so I did so much research and studying going into the race that I think I psyched myself out. My recommendation for anyone looking to run their first marathon is to be prepared, but don’t overdo it.

In the final days before the race, I was a ball of nerves, but SO excited!

And I had my coach in town to go on one last training run.

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When race day came, my goal was just to finish, that’s it. No lofty time goal. Just survive this thing.

You get to the start line several hours in advance due to road closures, so fortunately I had a bunch of friends from Fitbit to hang out with and help keep the nerves at bay (as much as possible). As unofficial team mom, I also made us matching shirts. 😉

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The time went by fast and before you knew it, we were off. I kept a steady pace and made my way through the 5 boroughs and 26.2 miles.

The crowd along the route was incredible. There were people along almost every inch. It was so inspiring. And best of all, I knew some of them! My mom, dad and Mychael jumped around the course to cheer me on at different points (thank goodness Mychael is an NYC subway expert navigator). My cousin’s even came out to cheer me on in Brooklyn and the Bronx. The signs my friends and family made were amazing and looking for them along the course was a great distraction. I’m so lucky to have such incredible support.

And I DID IT! I finished the race in 4:30:42.

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It was such an incredible experience. Personally, very fulfilling to accomplish such a lofty goal that only 6 years prior seemed outrageous, but also so inspiring to see all the different types of people out there doing the race, pushing through their own personal boundaries to show what they are capable of. 🙌

We spent a few days after the race hanging out in NY and celebrating. We got to see family…

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and as a sidenote, how cute are my parents? (This is the first time they used Snapchat.)

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I enjoyed the experience so much that I ran the race again in 2017. I followed a much more aggressive plan from Very Well to try and improve my time, now that I knew I could do it. I was on track to shave at least 15 minutes off my time from the year before. And as an added bonus, Mychael decided to run with me this year (I think he was having a bit of FOMO after how much fun I had the year before 😜).

Unfortunately, we both got sick in the weeks leading up to the race and our training was thrown off track.

When race day came we were still under the weather, but decided to just go for it any way. We altered our goal from getting a PR (personal record) to just having fun.

We had a bigger Fitbit crew to hang out with before the race.

2017 was MUCH colder than the previous year, but we had great outfits to keep warm at the start.

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We stopped in mile 1 to take a selfie on the Verrazano Bridge.

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Mychael stopped again around the 10-mile point to take a bourbon shot with this supportive fan.

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We stopped to take pics with our friend Jessica just past the halfway point.

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Needless to say, we were taking our time. But we did it. Between the weather (Mychael took off his shirt and rung it out at one point) and being sick, we were happy just to finish.

Even though we were forced to change our goal, we had a lot of fun running together and it was a different experience this year to take the time to enjoy all the different sights and sounds of each borough.

I don’t know if I’ll ever run New York again, but these experiences have awoken a new love for running. Chicago 2019, here I come!

BONUS–Sleep in a Treehouse

25 Feb

I’m big on surprises. I’m not sure who enjoys them more, the person planning the surprise or the person being surprised. It’s fun for everyone!

For Mychael’s 39th birthday I wanted to do something fun; something he would never think of, but would never forget.

Mychael is really outdoorsy and he’s slowly converting me, but I’ve always been more of a hotel & spa day sort of girl. It was his day though, so I tried to come up with something that was more up his alley. I remembered hearing about these cool yurts in Big Sur, so I started doing some research and found that the Treebones Resort had yurts, but also a really unique treehouse. It was the perfect once-in-a-lifetime surprise I was looking for!

Fortunately I’m a crazy planner because this place books up FAST! I booked in February for our stay in September and was lucky to secure Mychael’s birthday weekend in the treehouse.

The week of his birthday I left a poem clue and a small gift behind for him each day when I went to work:

  • Monday – Small potted tree
  • Tuesday – Superman robe & slippers
  • Wednesday – Big Sur photography book
  • Thursday – Travel toiletries

On Friday of his birthday weekend we started our journey down to Big Sur, making a stop at an amazing restaurant called Nepenthe. The restaurant has been open for 69 years and sits perched on a cliff, providing a picturesque ocean backdrop for lunch and the perfect start to our weekend.

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Following lunch, we continued down the road to Treebones.

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The resort is comprised of a bunch of campsites, some yurts, the treehouse and the nest, a very appropriately named human-sized bird’s nest, as well as two restaurants. We checked in and immediately went to check out our sweet weekend home, situated at the edge of the resort with breathtaking views.

We crossed the suspension bridge and settled into the treehouse.

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We spent the weekend relaxing, checking out the elephant seals in San Simeon, kayaking, walking down the beach, hiking to waterfalls and taking tons of pictures.

We had the best time relaxing and spending time together. It was the perfect weekend birthday celebration. If you ever have the opportunity to stay in a treehouse, I highly recommend it!

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#27 Buy a Condo/House

19 Jan

Yeah, that’s right…I think this officially makes me a grown-up. On March 23, 2017, we bought a house!

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Now, when I first put this on the list I figured I’d be buying a house in LA on my own, hence the “condo/” addition. But, like I said, I’ve been working on #39, so now I have a partner in all these important life moments.

When we made the big move from Santa Monica to San Francisco in March 2015, we looked to rent an apartment/condo similarly sized to our place in LA. We had an amazing thing going in Santa Monica – 3 bedroom, 2 bath, walking distance to the beach – so we knew it wouldn’t be quite the same, but we had no idea what we were in for up in the Bay Area. We ended up finding a 2 bedroom, 1 bath in the outskirts of the city for 150% what we were paying in LA.

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We were optimistic and we were still walking/riding distance to the beach, but we had to trade in our bathing suits for sweatshirts. We quickly came to learn though that the city wasn’t the place for us. The weather was just such a downer.

In spring 2016, we came to the realization that for the amount we were paying to rent a condo in the city, we could buy a house in the East Bay. So in July we started casually looking. We weren’t really ready to buy, but we wanted to see what was out there and what we could realistically afford.

We looked at houses in “up-and-coming” areas of Oakland, but it didn’t exactly feel safe and some of the spaces were…creative.

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We looked at a “fixer-upper” in Piedmont and after that decided to add walls and floors to our checklist.

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We worked our way further and further from San Francisco and finally stumbled on a cute city called Concord. Concord is up-and-coming in a much less scary way than Oakland. It’s older and some houses could use some work, but you don’t need to get a concealed carry permit to walk alone at night. 😉

We kept casually looking for a couple of months and then had one lucky weekend where we found not one, but two houses we loved! That was a Saturday. By Tuesday we had a real estate agent, a mortgage broker, we were pre-approved for a loan and we put in an offer. Everything happened SO fast!

After a little bit of negotiation (while I was in NY for work) and beating out 11 other offers, we got the place! It was the most exhilarating and, at the same time, scary experience of my life. But now we’re proud homeowners and, added bonus, turns out Mychael is quite the handy-man. 😃

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We’re almost ready to have people over, so get ready for the housewarming/1-year anniversary party, coming soon!

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#39 Find my Soul Mate, Fall in Love and Get Married–Part 1

16 Jan

Well obviously I can’t completely check this one off the list yet, but I’ve made a ton of progress. This is actually a really lofty, three-part goal, of which I’m two thirds of the way done, so I figured it was worth a shout out. As probably the most important item on the list (or perhaps tied with #40, but I’ll let you know about that when I get there), needless to say it has taken a lot of time. This is perhaps the reason I took a four-year hiatus from this whole blogging thing.

You may remember the cute trainer that was introduced while I was checking #4 off the list (run a 10K). Well, I bought a Groupon for bootcamp classes, set out to get in shape and run a fun little race, but ended up joining a triathlon team, finding my soul mate and switching some things up that would completely change the trajectory of my life.

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(Best triathlon coach award…yeah, I ordered that trophy)

Mind you, I didn’t know how to swim and only owned a beach cruiser, but that didn’t stop me. Workout all the time? Sure, trainer Mychael. Join a triathlon team and nearly drown on the first day of swim practice? No biggie, Mychael. Dedicate all my free time to a sport I’d never really heard of before? Whatever you say, Mychael. Love is weird like that…it makes you do crazy things and at the time they make total sense.

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I knew instantly that he was the one. My roommate at the time, Beatrice Guapo, can attest to that. We watched a video of Mychael online the day before my first bootcamp class and I told her I was going to date him (I obviously couldn’t have done this blog post back then…crazy girl alert!!).

Now on his end, it wasn’t so quick. It took a long, painful year for me to wear him down and convince him it was ok to date a client. That people wouldn’t think he was a sleazy trainer because well, everyone already thought we were dating anyway!

Separate from the love element though, meeting Mychael really was the best thing that’s ever happened to me. I started really enjoying working out and built a strong professional interest in sports and fitness that has shaped both my career and personal life.

Fast forward five years and here we are. I’m happier than I ever dreamed I could be. It’s something that’s incredibly difficult to put into words, but Mychael makes every day a little bit better. He’s the only one that can make me smile in any situation…and he does.

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On Mychael’s 40th birthday, we went up to Tahoe with a group of his friends to celebrate. At the end of dinner one night he started giving a speech. I was so confused because that is really out of character. As he kept talking, he started describing the first time he said “I love you.” Giving a speech was odd, but now publicly speaking about mushy emotional stuff made me wonder who this stunt double was in Mychael’s place. It finally dawned on me (not until the ring was in my hand), that he was proposing. It was such an incredible moment…unforgettable.

I’ve always aspired to have a relationship like my parents…married over 40 years and still madly in love…grab a quick kiss in the kitchen sort of love (something I thought was so gross when I was a kid). My mom always told me that their love grew over the years and I shouldn’t expect to be that close to someone right away. Well, after a year as Mychael’s client and best friend, 5 years as his girlfriend and a few months as his fiancé, I have a good idea what she was talking about. I can’t wait to become Mrs. Shannon.

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To be continued…